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Choosing Consequences It can be
very hard to decide on an appropriate consequence when your child
misbehaves. Here are a few ideas to help you through the process. Use
these as guidelines, and modify them to suit the child and the
situation. Misbehavior:
Child
leaves for school in the morning without doing Salaat. Consequence:
As,
soon as he gets in let him do, reminds him of the importance of this
duty in a gentle but firm way, don't shout let him know that you are
anger and that this angers Allah, then let your child do one of your
chores after school. Misbehavior:
Child
says rude comment at parent Consequence:
Tape
your child's allowance in coins on a piece of cardboard and hang it on
the refrigerator. Each time your child says it tear off a quarter. His
allowance is what's left at the end of the week. Let him know this is
been disrespectful and emphasize the honor a mother has in Islaam.
Misbehavior:
Your
child's toys and belongings are left cluttered around the house. Consequence:
Pick up
all clutter and put it in a "Saturday Box' sort of a
"toy-time-out." Allow the kids to have return of the contents
in the box each Saturday, or if they need it sooner, they can complete a
chore to earn the item's return. Misbehavior:
Your
child does not put away the bicycle/roller blades) skateboard, but
leaves it outside. Misbehavior:
Your
child hits/ bites/scratches/hurts a sibling. Misbehavior:
Child
continually acts inappropriately at the dinner times. Consequence:
Excuse
child from table and let him/her have dinner in the kitchen, by himself. Misbehavior:
When
your keeps on getting him/herself, dirty for no good reason. You end up
with mountains of laundry. Misbehavior:
Children
are fighting in the back seat of the car. Consequence:
Calmly
pull over to the side of the road, cross your arms and wait. (Maybe
you've heard this idea before, but have you ever done it?) It works best
if you are quiet. Yelling louder than they are rarely helps and say who
will not be allowed to go out for two days with us. Or maybe they don't
want to put their seat belt on so make them in charge of making sure
that everyone has their seat belt on.
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